3 Leadership Stories to Help You be a Better Manager
Leadership Stories #1:
[/b][/size][/color]There and back again, turning an A Player into a B Player
In a past company, we had a small team that worked remotely. We got together a few times a month but otherwise relied on email and calls to stay on the same page.
This was great to allow everyone to be efficient and focused on their work. Unfortunately, it also created management blind spots.
Over time, another leader and I noticed one of our best team members seemed to be disengaging. They didn’t bring the same enthusiasm and extra touch to their work we previously saw.In a one on one with their manager, we discussed their recent work. Did we need to let them go? What happened?
Neither of us knew the answer.
The epiphany: A lack of real communication
As we continued speaking we realized both of us had failed to check in with her. It had actually been months since either of us last checked in with her.
Realizing their drop in quality of work might just be our fault, I took responsibility. I reached out to them and immediately scheduled a 1 on 1. I’m very glad I did.I started the 1 on 1 by apologizing that we hadn’t been checking in with them. Then we started talking about how they were doing.It was then I discovered that their interests had shifted and they wanted to make some small changes to their role. They also had different long term goals now, so what we thought was great tasks that furthered those goals, were actually wrong.
What’s most amazing to me in retrospect is how quickly things turned around. After just two 1 on 1s where I listened and made some small changes, they started showing their past enthusiasm and quality work.
The Lesson:
From that point forward, I’ve always kept in mind that you can’t take any of your good people for granted. You have to make time to check in on them, and assume if there’s a problem it could just as much be you causing it as anything wrong with them.And all it took was making time to listen and take action on what I heard.
Leadership Stories #2: How a missed phone call made a great impression
The second leadership story, is not one I experienced first hand, but it’s stuck with me ever since. I learned it from my father, who I’m lucky to have as a father and a mentor in business and leadership.
He told me this story during a catch up call shortly after it happened. Since learning the lesson, I’ve tried to always do the same to great effect, so sharing it with you today.
The phone call
One day, my father was meeting privately in his office with a staff member. They were discussing a number of issues important to them when the phone rang.
My father ignored it.
After 3 rings, she looked at him and asked, “Aren’t you going to get that?”
He paused, and remarked, “No. I don’t know whether that call is important or not, but it can wait. I do know this meeting is important.”
Feeling valued, she got a big smile and they continued the conversation with new energy.
The Lesson:
What you pay attention to, and how you respond to things matters a great deal to your team.
This third and final leadership story is the one that surprised me most. It was a big gamble at the time, and definitely worked out better than I expected.
One day I was having a one on one with a team member and they told me that they had a new career goal. Suddenly they wanted to head in a very different direction. Instead of doing business development (their current role), they wanted to become a product manager.
Now, this news was surprising and concerning for a few reasons:
They were very good at business development.
We needed the revenue and partnerships they built in this role.
We didn’t have any product management work available for them.
They were also one of our best people, so we did not want to lose them. However, it was clear they had given it a lot of thought. They had good reasoning for the change and were determined to do it whether we supported them or not.
The Gamble
Rather than try to convince them they shouldn’t pursue their passion, I decided to embrace it.
I told them that if they kept doing a great job in their business development work, I would help them learn how to become a product manager. [Ed note: Before starting Lighthouse, I was a product manager myself]
At the time, I was afraid that with their change of interests, they’d start checking out of their BD role. I worried that any encouragement I gave on product management, will take away from the critical work we needed.
How wrong I was.
They actually did their best work after this conversation. For the next 18 months, they did their best work ever.
And all I had to do were some very simple low cost ways to support their learning:
We bought them the best books on product management to read.
Once a month we met to discuss anything they wanted to about product management, which also helped me see their progress in building their skills.
I introduced them to other good product managers I knew to learn from them, too.
The Lesson:
I was going to lose this team member whether I helped them or not. However, because I helped them, they helped me by working hard while they used their time to learn and build the skills for their change.
Most of your team members will want to grow in ways that align with their current job or a promotion they want. As a manager, supporting them often takes you very little time and can really pay off in their morale and motivation.
Source:https://getlighthouse.com/blog/leadership-stories-help-better-manager/
